We are rob & lauren: two professional photographers who love weddings and travel. This is where all of those things come
together for us. Within these pages we hope you discover and sense our deep love for the cultures that we encounter and
experience. Our biggest hope is that you come away from this site with a great understanding, respect and love for them and
their ways. Enjoy!
Random Photo Sampler Platter
Saturday
Edmonton, AB, Canada
June 28, 2008
I was looking through the archives for some shots for our new blog (coming soon!) and saw some photos I wanted to post here. I was thinking of going back through the whole trip and posting shots from each place. Who would be interested in that? Leave a comment if you want that!
For now here are those awesome photos:
A traveler on the streets of Jaisalmer.
And another local from the streets.
From the Qutab Minar in Delhi.
The Lotus Temple in Delhi.
Hanging jootis in Calcutta
Buddha sculpture from the temple at Krabhi, Thailand.
An awesome rhino from Kaziranga.
Our boatman from Varanasi.
Hope you enjoyed that little hodge-podge, but I'll keep things a bit more organized as I keep posting!
Also, I have gotten a couple emails regarding the Hindu Wedding article, and how it's not finished. Oops! I'll definitely try to get that finished up soon for you all!
Eric D:Excellent photos especially the Boatman from Varansi. You certainly have an eye for photography.( 2008-07-06 09:48:26 )
teresaling:Please post more. I would like to see pictures from your travels. :)( 2008-06-30 10:06:42 )
Shweta:Yo,in bid to mae u popular, I am pasting your link onto my favs in my blog witnessofthemeltingpot.blogspot.com.I know u dnt need it, it's just my way of telling you hw much i like ur wrk!The lotus temple shot's great as usual.:)( 2008-06-29 11:42:01 )
An Wonderful Email I'd Like To Share
Sunday
Edmonton, AB, Canada
June 15, 2008
We got this email a little while ago, and I really wanted to share it here. Since returning home we've gotten wrapped up in our wedding business, and haven't been able to work on the Wedding Travelers very much. But Tara sent us this email that really reminded us of the power and importance of what we're doing. Since we're still so new to photography we often don't realise how much of an impact our work can have on people, and it was really wonderful of Tara to write and tell us how she felt about our photos.
Anyway, thank you so much to Tara for her email. We will be working a lot more on this website to try and share all that we have learned.
Here's the email (posted with Tara's permission, of course :)
"Hi Lauren and Rob,
OK, I had a fellow photographer tell me about your site yesterday. I am of Indian origin though have grown up in the US. I'm just getting started in the wedding photography world and was telling this photographer that I want a logo that kind of shows my background with a little Indian twist, but something less cliche. Anyway she mentioned you guys and your cute little elephant logo, so I just looked up your site.
Breathtaking. Inspiring. Amazing. I find that a lot of photogs that shoot Indian/Hindu/South Asian weddings in general, are good at capturing color, but sometimes not so great at capturing the little nuances of the ceremony and the traditions. I understand this because its hard to understand the significance of every little moment if you don't know the culture well and have seen the many traditions a few times. I am floored by your ability to capture this moments and the way you have absorbed yourself into especially Indian culture.
I would be honored to meet you at some point in life and I am just _SO_ inspired by your work because I would love to do the same kind of thing but probably am too scared! If you ever had a photog workshop or tips or anything or even needed someone to carry your bags, I would be there in a second, because I would be so so so so so happy to just chat with you about your experiences, I'm so curious as to what you have learned simply by traveling (not even getting to the photography!).
Anyway, Seriously I have so much respect for you, and thank you. Thank you for describing and detailing my culture's traditions so well and capturing the heart of it. I'm sitting here so welled up with emotion from looking at your pictures and so happy to see photography that has so well illustrated so many traditions beloved to me. Someday when I get married, you have shot right to the top of my list of possible photographers.
Regards,
Tara"
And I wanted to share a few photos that show some more of the beauty of India.
Three beautiful children that loved to smile at our camera from the seat behind us on a bus ride to Jaisalmer.
Details from a Jain temple just outside of Jaisalmer.
A incredible alleyway in Jodhpur.
And an early evening shot of the main clocktower in Jodhpur.
That's all for now. Picking out and editing those photos has made me deeply, deeply miss India right now.
Shweta:I c:)You got me on dat one!But imagine eventhat wud be so exciting wen it happens!( 2008-06-24 06:34:01 )
Lauren:Lol, not just yet, Shweta! Our wedding photography business here in Edmonton. It takes up all our time pretty much!( 2008-06-18 13:00:11 )
Shweta:"we've gotten wrapped up in our wedding business"--r u guys getting married?!!( 2008-06-18 05:26:14 )
Starving for more photos?
Friday
Edmonton, AB, Canada
June 6, 2008
Are some of you out there dying to see more from the weddings and portrait sessions we did while in India and Vietnam? Well, we finally managed to get through all the photos and put some up on our website. So if you head on over to www.robandlauren.ca, click on "weddings" and then go into the "photos" gallery you will see a ton of listing in our "international flavour" section! Lots of previously unseen photos in there, so go and check it out!
To whet your appetite, here are some previously unseen photos from India.
Shweta Modgil:Great pics on the site as usual:)and shot from angles one cant think of!( 2008-06-09 06:53:25 )
Mostly Lisa:inspiring as always. these photos give me goosebumps!( 2008-06-08 15:35:38 )
Another from the Taj
Sunday
Agra, India
April 27, 2008
Hey everyone!
So we just finished our very first wedding of the year back home in Edmonton. It was a South Indian wedding, and I think we'll certainly have to post up some shots of that soon, because there were some really new traditions! But we ended up shooting for 18 hours yesterday, so we're obviously still a bit worn out! So that will come soon! For now I'll post up a couple new photos from the Taj Mahal shoot with Megha and Chakshu to tide you over!
Hope you enjoyed those! And check back soon for those new wedding pics!
ruby rideout:I will be going to India later this month too.
Your photos are gorgeous and that bride is stunningly beautiful. I can't wait to photograph the Taj Mahal!( 2008-06-09 12:43:50 )
jen wilson:just stumbled across your site - your photos are incredibly beautiful!( 2008-06-07 22:53:20 )
Shivani Sherman:These are so beautiful!! I love Taj Mahal, hopefully will get to see it someday. ( 2008-04-30 13:02:29 )
Neha Dayal:Nice pics!( 2008-04-29 03:26:39 )
The Wedding Travelers Featured On Viddler!
Monday
Edmonton, AB, Canada
April 7, 2008
So we woke up this morning to a really fantastic surprise! Our little video of Jodhpur, India (which incidentally was our favorite place we visited on our whole trip!) is featured on the front page of Viddler! Viddler is the really fantastic website we use for all our videos, so to be put on their front page is extremely exciting!
Make sure you visit the site today to see us on the front page! Just hit up www.viddler.com for a little extra dose of The Wedding Travelers!
Mostly Lisa:saw your video on viddler. nice job. so cool to see your travels.
quick question: what video camera are you using? quality looks uber.
hi-5 from a Vancouverite!( 2008-04-07 17:13:46 )
rob:It's also a great way to easily check out some of the other videos we did this trip. I know I just wasted the last 45 minutes going though them!!! Also check out the following video from the very same safari we did!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1LjG7S8aqJg
Just click my name in the comments box it will link you there.
PS Is it bad that I'm the first to comment, as well as too lazy to just go back and put this in the original post Lauren just did? Happy Monday!
( 2008-04-07 10:15:32 )
Home At Last, Safe and Sound
Sunday
Edmonton, AB, Canada
April 6, 2008
Wow, it was really strange just now to write our location as Edmonton, rather than exotic places like Singapore, Vietnam or India! But even though Edmonton is a little more tame than some of the places we saw in the last three months, I can't even begin to tell you how glad we are to be home. Our 40 hour journey home was long, arduous, and not totally problem free, but we made it here with all our bags intact, and our sanity more or less in place. We got a great sleep last night, and our bed felt like a huge fluffy cloud compared to the beds we've slept in for the past 3 months. And believe it or not we're feeling good this morning, not really jet-lagged, and have already gotten back to work! You might think we'd give ourselves time off to recoup, but it feels like we've been waiting to get home and get back into the swing of things, and we just couldn't spend a day sitting around doing nothing!
We're going to hook you up with a few videos we took over the past few days. Our cameras didn't really see the light of day after the wedding, so there aren't any photos. But a few neat little videos will be good for you!
First, from the Singapore Changi Airport. After 2 months in India, we felt like we were in some spotlessly clean futuristic utopia when we got to the airport in Singapore. Seriously, we just kept smiling the whole time we were there!
And then a little video from our landing in Los Angeles. It was in the evening, so we were treated to some beautiful sunset colours.
And finally a video in two parts, since we ran out of memory card space, and I don't know how to splice them together. Here is Rob giving you a little tour of all the goodies we brought back!
There you go! We've got a bunch of shopping to do here, for some food and some business stuff. But we'll be getting back to this blog soon to add a ton more photos from our trip, and an unbelievable amount of info still needs to go up! So thanks for all the well wishes for a safe trip, and we'll talk to you all soon!
P.S. In the video Rob mentioned my Shootsac, and I figured some people might be wondering what that is! Well, it's an absolutely fantastic little camera bag, perfect for people who, like me, change their lenses a lot when they are shooting. I really really really wished I had brought it along on our trip! I know I'll never be leaving it at home again, no matter where we are going! Anyway, if you're interested you need to check out the website, www.shootsac.com. We love it!
Marisa:So glad you made it safely home.( 2008-04-09 19:34:17 )
Chris Uglanica:Hey Rob and Lauren.
So glad to see you guys made it home safe and sound. Just in time for all the snow on the weekend, too. haha.
Can't wait to see you guys again and hear about all your adventures.
C.( 2008-04-08 11:59:10 )
Michael Shandro:Hi Rob and Lauren, I'm so glad to see that you're back. Haley and I just finished shooting an Indian wedding this week and we are exhausted. It sure was a lot of fun though. I can't wait to see some more of the pictures from the weddings that you shot in India. Take care and we will talk soon.( 2008-04-06 23:50:13 )
Lise:So glad you got back home safely, and all your purchases made it home too,I love the red lining in your jacket,Rob you will look good in it. Ken and I will be in Edmonton sometime this summer so hopefully we will get together somehow. Welcome back,and keep well.Love to you both.Grams.( 2008-04-06 13:30:43 )
Kimmi & Harsimran | Marriage Ceremony
Friday
Jalandhar, Punjab, India
April 4, 2008
Finally the time had come, and it was the day of the marriage ceremony. With Sikh weddings, the ceremony is supposed to be finished by noon, which always means an extremely early morning. We were up and ready and at Kimmi’s house by 6:00AM….We barely were even functioning! But we were able to get a really cute shot of this. It is tradition that the bride is lifted from the washroom by her uncle and brothers (and when I say brothers, I mean brothers in the Indian sense, which is really just any male cousins around her age).
Then as she ran off to the salon to get ready all the boys had their turbans tied. It’s really a funny process and I enjoyed getting to see it done! (I'm usually with the girls side, and have never seen it before!)
A quick cat nap for us as everyone finished getting ready, and then off to the location! It was just flat out incredible, an enormous colourful tent full of majestic benches and fans taller than a person!
The ladies were all waiting anxiously for the groom to arrive.
And when he arrived he arrived in style! There was a marching band that brought him in, complete with bagpipes, which were a bit strange to see in India, but neat nonetheless.
When the groom arrives his face is covered by the Sehra, which are garlands made of tinsel, beads, or sometimes even fresh flowers. He also carries a long sword, and I think he looks absolutely downright impressive!
Then the band threw up some ribbons and petals and marched around Harsimran and his mother as they greeted Kimmi’s family.
A nice shot of that sword.
Then the Milni took place. It involves the corresponding male members from each family (ie. Kimmi’s maternal uncle and Harsimran’s maternal uncle) greeting each other, putting flower garlands over each others neck…
And sometimes they take turns to lift each other way up in the air!
A close up of those garlands
Harsimran’s brother looks so happy in this shot, I love it.
And as this all went on Harsimran looked on.
Then, after the Milni was finished, it was time for the gals to have their fun. All the sisters and female cousins strung a long ribbon across the entrance to the tent to keep Harsimran from getting in.
He then had to bargain with them to get in. I’m not sure how much he had to pay, but in the end the girls all cheered loudly so I’m sure they were well compensated ;)
After everyone had some great breakfast the close family and the army of photographers and videographers headed off to the gurdwara for the actual marriage ceremony.
A few details from the ceremony. This is a chaur sahib, which they use to fan the book.
And the book itself: the Guru Granth Sahib. The text is treated as the eternal Guru of the Sikhs. It is not an object that is worshipped, but rather it guides Sikhs in prayer and worship. The text contains over 5000 shabhads, or hymns, that are set to classic music, which is why there is always music during Sikh ceremonies.
Here are the musicians playing.
One of the important parts of the ceremony is when the bride and groom walk around the book. This is similar to when they walk around the sacred fire in the Hindu ceremony, but here the bride is lead and helped along by her brothers as she makes her way around.
A neat shot of them walking.
Kimmi looked so happy and peaceful.
And the setting was so lovely.
One great thing was that all of the women were wearing different shades of pink. It looks so beautiful.
As I've just learned, there is no such thing as a priest in the Sikh religion. Rather, there is what is known as a granthi, who is someone who reads from the Guru Granth Sahib and takes care of it. Anyone can be a granth, as well as either gender. This is the granthi from Kimmi and Harsimran's ceremony. You can see that the Guru Granth Sahib is always covered overhead, and is on a raised platform. Everyone sits on the ground, at a lower level than the book, to show their respect.
Two of Kimmi’s fathers friends, who are holy men, attended the ceremony and blessed the new couple.
A neat shot of the whole setting.
Then after the ceremony was finished, the couple returned to the tent to see all of their guests. This time when they entered Kimmi was alongside Harsimran and his family.
It was a spectacular entrance. Kimmi told me she had wanted a ton of flower petals thrown on her, and she certainly got that.
And, of course, there was a bit of dancing.
But even though so much of the wedding is full of happiness, these weddings also have a ceremony marked by strong emotions. It is called the Doli, and it signifies the bride leaving her parents house to join her husband. We have, on many occasions, had a Doli that wasn’t too sad, but in many cases, as in this one, the couple plans to move very far away from home (these two are moving to California in a month) and so you can imagine how intense the feelings were. Kimmi was definitely overtaken by the emotion.
She and Harsimran sat together as they were fed sweets. But now that they were married they were finally able to hold hands.
And then they walked outside. Kimmi threw puffed rice behind her to signify prosperity, and the returning of what her parents have given her over all the years.
Then she got into the doli, which was carried by her male cousins. Her brother stood at the front to carry his sister away.
It was certainly very emotional, walking down the street as she was followed by her whole family.
Harsimran walked along beside her.
Kimmi and her father hugged goodbye.
And her brother led her to the car.
But not without a last hug from her mother.
Everyone was caught up in the emotion.
And then as the car drove off all her brothers and cousins pushed it away.
And one last one of the grandmas just hugging each other, a sweet way to end such a wonderful wedding.
At the end here I'd like to say an enormous thank you from Rob and myself to Kimmi, Harsimran, and their families for allowing us to be a part of this, and to Kimmi's family for taking such good care of us throughout the whole week. We were once again treated just like family, and always well looked after, and we couldn't have asked for more caring hosts. To our friends, the Mahajans, who let us stay in their palacial home, and were so kind and giving, an enormous thank you. And to everyone we met there, thank you for your friendship. I'm positive we'll all meet again some day!
And that’s a Sikh wedding. I’ll probably be adding to this once I get home, since there are many more photos to add, but I hope you all learned something and enjoyed this! And as always, if you see anything that I got wrong, or anything I should add, please feel free to let me know! We’re all learning here ☺
Anyway, Rob and I are probably on a plane right now on our way home back to Canada. We really can’t believe it’s over already, and at the same time we can’t believe how long we’ve been gone from home. Things won’t end here, as we have much more to add to this website. We have reviews from our travels, of our gear, and where we stayed. We have hundreds more photos to share with you, and more descriptions of different weddings to fill you in on. So please stay tuned, and give us a shout if you have any suggestions. We can’t believe all the support we got throughout this whole trip, and want to extend a very heart-felt thank you to all of you who read along, even if you never commented! We weren’t doing this blog for ourselves, but rather to maybe spread the word about how cool Indian weddings can be, and how gorgeous this whole world is. I hope we succeeded!
Huge hugs and kisses from us, and when you hear from us next we’ll be back home! Yay!
japji:really a nice photo shoot guys ...
specialy the one's at the guruduara sahib .......( 2008-04-24 03:46:36 )
kimmy n harsimran : hey rob n lauren, thank you so much for participating in our happiness ! All the pics are awesome, the photography,the direction, everything..... superb!!
miss you guys, stay in touch.
best of luck.
( 2008-04-09 05:22:48 )
Shweta Modgil:BON VOYAGE:)( 2008-04-06 10:31:56 )
Gurjeet:Pics r magnificient...have no words....amazing...good colour combination of all...im in Aus dts y i miss ur wedding..anyways be happy forever..live life with colours....have a happy married life...stay safe..( 2008-04-05 21:06:18 )
Julie Cruz:Noooo!! Don't say it's over!!
THANK YOU guys for taking us all along your wonderful journey! I hope you travel again soon because i've had a blast living vivaciously through you guys and hope to continue!
Have a safe trip home! :) ( 2008-04-05 19:11:26 )
Merissa:Wow! Great post! Thank you for allowing all of us to join you on your adventures and learn about Indian weddings! Have a safe journey home!
-Merissa, Edmonton( 2008-04-04 23:52:29 )
marisa:I had so much fun following you guys. It was amazing. I loved it and wish you a very safe flight back home. ( 2008-04-04 21:57:10 )
Chelo:So unbelievably beautiful and emotional.
Have a safe journey home.( 2008-04-04 17:23:58 )
Lisa from Blush:Rob & Lauren, thank you so much for including us in on your amazing adventure. I've learned so much from your travels and the insights into Indian wedding customs and traditions is priceless. I'm sure I'll be back on many occaision to use this blog as a source of reference. Thank you thank you thank you! Wishing you a safe journey home!( 2008-04-04 12:08:40 )
mom:Have a safe journey home. Can't wait to give you both a HUGE hug.We've loved every minute of your travels & have learned so much from you're posts, pic's & video's.!!!( 2008-04-04 08:05:37 )
harneet:thanks 4 making such a memorable weeding. love your pics a lot( 2008-04-03 06:46:29 )
Seshu:I have been following your blog since your started your trip. And I do sincerely believe that you two are one of the very few photographers who "get it" (Indian weddings) ... love your work, energy, passion, vision, approach ... everything! Hope our paths cross someday soon. :)( 2008-04-02 10:57:22 )
Traci Turchin:Thanks so much for sharing this! It has been so much fun to get to see your images--getting to travel without leaving home! :)( 2008-03-31 09:49:00 )
Kimmi & Harsimran | Mendhi, Maya, Chura
Thursday
Jalandhar, Punjab, India
April 3, 2008
The next day was one of the most fun parts of an Indian wedding: the mendhi! Mendhi, more commonly known as henna, is a form of body beautification. A paste is made up of dried leaves of the henna flower, and then it is applied to the hands. When the paste first goes on and is wet it appears dark green.
As the paste dries, it turns black, and gets hard.
In order to let the colour get darker, you need to leave the paste on as long as you can. You can put on a mixture of lemon juice and sugar to keep the paste moist and sticking on the skin.
The designs are always different, and each hand is different. It’s really good fun to see all the ladies going around and comparing their patterns.
Here’s a shot of me that Rob really likes and wanted me to put up! You can see that I got my hands all covered in mendhi too, my favorite part of Indian weddings :)
The house was looking fab.
Then the girls started getting ready for the Maya. They made up a decorative design out of coloured powder to place in front of Kimmi’s feet.
It started off with Kimmi’s mom putting some oil in Kimmi’s hair with a small bunch of grass.
Then everyone took turns applying a paste made up of turmeric powder (which is called haldi in Hindi. If you’ve read my article on Hindu weddings you’ll realize that this Maya ceremony is essentially the same as the Haldi ceremony, just a different name for Punjabis!) and water.
Even covered with yellow goo, Kimmi still looked gorgeous and oh-so-happy.
Her mom tied a special bracelet around her wrist.
All the female sisters and cousins helped out.
Then it was time for the Chura ceremony. The chura are the special red and beige bracelets that a bride wears. Generally they are worn for as along as possible after the wedding. For some brides it is for a few days, for others it is a few months. Here the male uncles all touch the chura as they sit in a bowl of milk.
Then the brides maternal uncle puts the chura on.
And by now you should know what comes next. Party! Kimmi and her dad had a great time dancing together, with her mom looking on between them.
Even the grandmas get into the action.
Wedding houses are always lit up with gorgeous lights. Check out how spectacular the house looked.
And finally the kalirehs were tied on by the female cousins and sisters.
Kimmi hits her kalirehs above the heads of her un-married cousins for good luck, in hopes that they will get married soon.
According to a Indian bridal magazing we picked up here in Delhi, the shape of the kalirehs has a symbolic meaning. The top is shaped like a coconut, to show that the bride will always have food in her new home. There are metal pieces hanging from it, to show that she will always have wealth.
And a final shot of her gorgeous chura against her beautiful mendhi.
At this point all the events leading up to the big day had been completed. You could just sense the anticipation, as people tried to head to bed early for the wedding ahead. That means that dinner was held at 9:00 PM, instead of 11:00 PM! Lol. Indian people definitely tend to stay up late! We ducked out early, since we knew that we’d be getting up around 5:00 AM, and needed a ton of sleep. And it was well worth it, because the next day was just spectacular. Stay tuned for that!
harneet:hi met u at jal weeding. now looking at your photographs. they r fabulous. they r beautiful. i really like them. hope 2 c more of your pics( 2008-04-03 06:33:08 )
Kimmi & Harsimran | Sangeet
Tuesday
Jalandhar, Punjab, India
April 1, 2008
The next day we got to rest during the day, which was much needed after the very long first day. And then it was time for the ladies’ Sangeet. Here everyone was really dressed in his or her finest and ready for a fun evening. Originally the Sangeet was only for the ladies, but these days both men and women attend, although the groom generally doesn’t come.
They started off the evening with a great round of dandia, a dance where they hit sticks together. I know that sounds strange, but it really looks like great fun.
This time the colour scheme was bright pink.
Kimmi’s younger brother was a fantastic dancer.
And everyone enjoyed bopping to some bhangra
Then they enjoyed the Jaggo dance. Here the ladies take turns holding a pot with lit candles on top of it, as they dance and twirl.
There is always great music and rhythm for these events. On the right side of this shot you can see a guy playing a dhol, and on the left side of the shot you can see a woman who is banging a stick against a big wooden tray. Tons of noise and fun.
Rob loves this shot. These guys asked for a posed shot, but we got this instead and find it so much more energetic. It’s like they are bursting out of the photo.
And to end off the night Kimmi’s brother (the one in the red) hopped up on stage and treated us all to a song.
And that’s the Sangeet! A time for everyone to have fun together, eat some great food, and dance and laugh before the wedding starts and everyone is stressed about getting things done on time.
Shivani Sherman:Wow!! these pictures are absolutely beautiful!!! What a beautiful wedding in my beautiful hometown Jalandhar :-)
( 2008-04-30 12:58:46 )
Saajidah:WOW! The pics are amazing! I LOVE the pink theme! Wish there was someway we could bring all those wonderful decorators over here to Edmonton! Hope you two are doing well! :) ( 2008-04-03 05:19:51 )
Sarb:Wow - look forward to seeing the next set of pics.
Love the b&w shot :o)( 2008-04-02 05:53:28 )
marisa:It looks like it was a great time.( 2008-04-01 20:30:00 )
Lise:Wonderful photos, it is hard to believe your trip is almost over,it sure has been fun from my end of it,can't wait to go to Edmonton this summer,to hear you talk about it,and see more photos. Love to you both,and safe trip home.( 2008-04-01 15:18:56 )
Lise:Wonderful photos, it is hard to believe your trip is almost over,it sure has been fun from my end of it,can't wait to go to Edmonton this summer,to hear you talk about it,and see more photos. Love to you both,and safe trip home.( 2008-04-01 15:18:54 )
mom:Beautiful shots.I love the enthusiam and happiiness these people have. they're so full of energy.The colors are so vivid.See you both in 4 days!!!!( 2008-04-01 08:03:27 )
mom:Beautiful shots.I love the enthusiam and happiiness these people have. they're so full of energy.The colors are so vivid.See you both in 4 days!!!!( 2008-04-01 08:03:23 )
Kimmi & Harsimran | Chuni & Ring Ceremony
Sunday
Jalandhar, Punjab, India
March 30, 2008
In the evening following the Shagan everyone got dressed up and gathered at a hall for some more fun and frolicking. Oh, and also some ceremonies!
One big difference that we’ve noticed at the wedding’s we’ve attended here in India versus the Indian weddings we’ve attended in Canada is that here things are decorated much more elaborately. Manpower is an inexpensive cost here, so there are always armies of decorators putting together amazing themed rooms. For this ceremony the whole room was in tones of blue and silver, even with dolphins made of wire and cloth.
When Kimmi and Harsimran first entered they were offered these fantastic looking drinks. But they were both pretty nervous and not feeling like a bevy, so the waiters gave them to us! Score! They were very very tasty.
Kimmi looked flat-out, insanely, and mind-blowingly amazing. In this shot you can see Harsimran’s mother putting a necklace around Kimmi’s neck. She was given a full set of gorgeous jewelry, which was put on by Harsimran’s family.
Harsimran was looking great too. Nearly unrecognizable without the turban from the morning.
One of the important parts of this evening was the placing of the chuni (an elaborate shawl) on the bride by the groom’s mother. That is what is going on in this shot.
Then Harsimran placed sindoor (the bright red powder that married Indian women wear in their hair part) on Kimmi’s forehead.
And then they exchanged rings, just as we do in the West.
Kimmi and Harsimran’s mother.
Then, as with any Punjabi event, there is crazy dancing! Harsimran was picked up and paraded around.
And we even got into the spirit. This pose here is what the photographers at this wedding (there were about 6 besides us, plus 3 videographers, and 20 assistants…it was crazy busy) would always make people do. But they would actually stop them in the middle of dancing to make them pose like this for a shot! We’ve had people in Edmonton do the same pose as well…I think it’s supposed to make it look like your dancing. I find it pretty funny!
And thus ended that event. The next segment: the Sangeet (the ladies’ dance party!)
Shivani Sherman:What a beautiful wedding, gorgeous pictures and breathtaking colors. Love the location!( 2008-08-17 23:41:08 )
Lise:Everyone looks so happy,the Bride beautiful, the Groom Handsome, I wish them both a long and happy Life.( 2008-04-01 15:07:19 )
Marisa:I love the picture of you both. I
talked to your Mom and she is so looking forward to you guys coming home.
( 2008-03-31 20:04:59 )
mom:Such bright & colorful shots. The best pic was the last one of you both. You look so relaxed & happy, not to mention the cool outfits.My fav pic......see you both soon!!!!!( 2008-03-31 08:14:20 )
Holi, A Car Ride, And A Crazy Day
Tuesday
Amritsar to Jalandhar, India
March 25, 2008
Hey everyone!
Right now we're in Jalandhar, smack dab in the middle of our Indian wedding. It's been crazy so far, and we're enjoying every minute of it. There will be some photos coming up really soon, we just need to find free time, which is ever so scarce during a wedding :)
For now we'll show you some random photos and videos from the past few days!
Here are a couple videos from Amritsar that we didn't get to post, due to incredibly slow internet connections.
First, a little video from the Golden Temple. We’ve shot a couple of Sikh weddings in Edmonton, and I’ve always deeply enjoyed the ceremonies because of the use of fantastic music. At the temple it was no different, as 4 men sing and chant continuously, reading from the Sikh holy book, the Guru Granth Sahib. Here’s a video to give you a sense of the music and the setting.
Amazing isn't it?
And then for something that can only really be described via video: the border closing. We showed you photos, but honestly it's not enough. It was the most hilarious sight, really. The guards would stamp their feet, kick their legs insanely high, and then speed walk like-you-wouldn’t-believe towards the border. I’m so glad Rob got a great video of it going on, because it’s something that photos alone just can’t properly describe.
Now for the photos let's start off with Holi. Holi is a huge festival in India. It is known as the Festival of Colours, and basically consists of people running around, throwing paint and coloured powder on each other. It is celebrating to signify the coming of spring. Generally people can get pretty wild, so we kept a low profile, but did manage to get a few shots of the crazy young men covered in colour.
Then we made the drive from Amritsar to Jalandhar. Here are a few neat photos from the drive.
I find this absolutely hilarious, and I think many of my friends will as well. But if you don't get it, don't worry. :)
It's crazy how the men will ride on top of buses speeding down the highways.
And they share the roads with cows, bicycles, motorbikes, and even huge tractors!
Then we made it to Jalandhar, and met up with the family hosting the wedding. We've met them before in Canada, so it was absolutely fantastic to see so many familiar faces! And one of the funniest things is that they have a copy of the very first album we ever made (which is still the album we show to all our clients, believe it or not!). It was a pretty weird situation to see all these people here in India looking through the album that we have looked through hundreds of time back home.
Then while we were waiting we were taken for a tour of the nearby Kidney Hospital, where the father of the bride works as a kidney specialist. It was kind of weird, to be taken to all the Restricted Access areas of a hospital (including the ICU, NICU, Blood Storage Room, and the Kidney Stone Crushing Machine Room....no, that's not the technical term). But it was very interesting to see what an Indian hospital is like (albeit a private Indian hospital). We just took a couple of quick snaps but here ya go anyway.
Then while we were waiting to head off to a function, I took a quick shot of Rob wearing some snazzy new clothes he got for the wedding. Doesn't he look great? And for only $31 Canadian for the shirt, pants, belt and shoes. Rock on.
And finally we hopped in a car, and were driven to a wedding, hosted by friends of the family we are staying with. Honestly, I can barely even describe it, it was mind-blowing. More than we had ever seen or expected. First off we saw what we had dreamed of seeing - an elephant at a wedding!
Then we walked inside and just couldn't believe it. It was enormous, with probably around 1000 people there.
The groom is the one with the tall feather on his turban.
Just crazy.
So there's a few photos to tide you over until we get some up from this wedding. Hope you are all doing well. We'll be back home in less than two weeks now, and honestly can't wait. We really miss our cat, Scooter!!! Isn't he the cutest thing you've ever seen??
Who wouldn't miss that cutie?? (Photo credit to Steph, my sister, who sent us this while we were traveling. It's currently our desktop background, and we say hello and give him pets all the time.....yeah we really miss him!)
Vicki:I know what you mean about missing your cat! I have also been travelling for three months in europe, and we have our two cats on our desktop! I'm glad I am not the only one that "pets" their cat on the computer! Great pictures from the wedding!( 2008-03-29 04:51:30 )
mom:Beautiful pic's as usual. Looks like you both have a lot of explaining and loving to give Scooter when you get back. .... we sure did with Toby....and we were just gone for 5 days.! Miss you both .... just 1 more week and you're home.YIPEE !!!( 2008-03-28 00:23:15 )
steph :that paint throwing madness looks like a good time. perhaps that's a tradition you guys should establish back here once you get home, yeah?
also, I thought you should know: I've diagnosed scooter with borderline personality disorder. you have been forewarned. ( 2008-03-27 23:34:13 )
Tal:I use dippers at night all of the time. Sometimes in the daytime. Depends on what they have to offer and whether or not i get a free dinner out of it. hahahahahahaha we saw these all the time and my dad tried to take a picture and couldn't so I'm glad you did. Lookin snazzy Rob!( 2008-03-27 02:14:47 )
Michael Shandro:It was cool seeing the video of the Golden Temple. We saw a picture of it at the Gurdwara that we are going to be taking pictures at for a wedding next weekend. It looks spectacular!
Michael( 2008-03-25 17:09:27 )
The Golden Temple, And Other Cool Things
Friday
Amritsar, India
March 21, 2008
After all our time in Delhi doing major photo shoots we were pretty photo’ed out. It’s been nearly 3 months of traveling and shooting, and we’re definitely starting to get pretty tired. So when we got to Amritsar I don’t think we took out our cameras for a couple days! It was nice to spend some time just wandering and shopping (we bought some pretty cool stuff, but we’re going to keep it a surprise until we get home and show our family! They aren’t going to believe how crazy we are, lol!)
Anyway, it’s definitely not like there isn’t anything to shoot in Amritsar, and once we mustered up the energy to do some shooting, we saw a pretty amazing thing. But let’s look at the photos, shall we?
First, since we keep talking about train travel but haven’t shown you anything, I’ll show you a quick snap from our train trip between Delhi and Amritsar. It was the first time we were able to book a 1AC seat. The classes on trains start with 1AC being the most luxurious, then 2AC, 3AC, and then 2nd class, which is completely unreserved, free-for-all seating. We’ve traveled in 3AC (not so fun, and pretty cramped), 2AC (better, with more space) and 1AC (totally awesome!). We never got up the courage to do the whole 2nd Class business, especially with all our expensive gear. Maybe one day, but not on this trip! Anyway, this is 1AC, and a 9 hour ride in one of these cars cost around $60 Canadian for both of us. Not too shabby at all!
In the midst of our shopping we took time to go to the “classiest restaurant in Amritsar”, as dubbed by The Lonely Planet. It was definitely a really nice place, with great food. Since we’re talking money in this post so far I’ll give you an idea of what a fancy meal out costs here. We ordered two mocktails, a large bottle of mineral water, two appetizers, two main courses, a pot of amazing Darjeeling tea, and a sizzling brownie (shown in the picture below, a brownie on a really hot plate with sauce drizzled over it so that it bubbled and steamed, yum!). The total cost was around 800 Rupees, which is $20 Canadian. Still can’t get over the conversions for things here!
And then we packed up the cameras and it was time to see the main sight of Amritsar: the famous Golden Temple.
This is the most holy gurdwara (Sikh temple) in the world, and attracts pilgrims from all over. Our hotel is very very close to the temple, and so we always see constant streams of people walking down the street towards it. Upon entering the complex, you take off your shoes, cover your head, and wash your feet. Then you step inside to see the amazing golden structure in the middle of a huge pond of water.
The water even has a bunch of huge fish in it!
It’s really an amazing sight, and I thought it was one of the most incredible things I’ve seen this trip.
We went around sunset and were rewarded with some really cool sights.
One of the really great things about Sikhism is that it is welcoming of people of all classes. They have a huge free kitchen that cooks dhal (lentils), rice and chapattis (bread) for about 40,000 people each day.
The dome of the temple is made up of around 750Kg of pure gold.
It was a very serene and peaceful setting.
It was really a must-see stop in India.
The temple is connected to the outer building by a huge walkway that is continuously packed with people waiting to go inside the temple to pray and offer prasad (a sweet food that is blessed in the temple). No photos were allowed once we got on to the walkway, but here’s a shot showing you the front of the temple.
And then for something with a completely different feel to it: the closing ceremony of the India-Pakistan border. We took a taxi out to the border at Attari/Wagah, which is about an hour from Amritsar. It’s really a huge deal out there! The guards were all elaborately dressed, and extremely tall (some were probably close to 7 ft tall!) and towered over Rob who stands in at 6 ft.
It has become something of a competition between the Indians and the Pakistanis to celebrate the most for their country at the closing. On the Indian side there was dancing breaking out (you know you’re in Punjab when….)
A neat shot of one of the guards
The huge crowd was waiting with much anticipation for the ceremony to start
And then it was time! It was the most hilarious sight, really. The guards would stamp their feet, kick their legs insanely high, and then speed walk like-you-wouldn’t-believe towards the border.
They performed with such severity, and yet looked pretty funny at the same time, it was great.
The crowd was totally into it. The announcer would yell “HINDUSTAN!” (which means India) and everyone would respond with “ZINDABAN!” and throw their fists up in the air. It means "Long Live India!" or "India Rules!", and they were certainly having fun saying it! (love vibes to both Geeta and Manju for helping me out with the translation!)
I couldn’t believe how high they could kick. It was tough to get a good shot, since they did it so fast, but here’s a snap.
And then they lowered the flags.
All good fun! We drove back to Amritsar, and then grabbed our mini-tripod and headed back to the Golden Temple for a couple of night shots. I finish up the post with those.
And that’s Amritsar! Tomorrow we leave for Jalandher, to attend a weeklong Punjabi Sikh wedding. It’s going to be great fun, and we’re really excited. Hopefully we’ll be able to find both an internet connection and some free time while we’re there to keep you posted. If not, you’ll hear from us next when we return to Delhi on the 28th for a few last days in India before we fly to Singapore, and then home at last. I can’t believe I’m already starting to detail the end of this trip, especially when we just got so many new followers thanks to the Taj session, but don’t cry everyone. We’re hoping to keep posting a new shot every week, from our thousands and thousands of photos that we took and never blogged, so the fun will continue, even when we return home. And I have a few articles to write, so much more to come. Until then, we still have two weeks left in traveling, and thousands more photos to take, so it’s not over until it’s over!
Manju:Hi guys!
Great pictures!!
At the border ceremony, the people were saying "HINDUSTAN ZINDABAD"...which means "Live long India" or "India Rules," depending on who interprets it. Also, I loved your pictures of Megha and Chakshu and I was fortunate enough to be at their wedding in December! ( 2008-03-30 11:34:34 )
Shweta Modgil:Wow..a trip to Amritsar followed by a Punjabi wedding!!That really sums up North India for you guys:)Have fun at the wedding.( 2008-03-24 01:55:46 )
steph and scooter:scooter requests that I ask you guys to bring him home that fancy fish. he says that, after being around the other kittens for the past few months, he would greatly appreciate having a companion in the new house. mind you, he could be lying and just want to gobble it up, but you never know. he looks pretty sincere( 2008-03-23 17:22:24 )
Mom:Absolutely wonderful pic's. Love the gold temples. Happy Easter...from Summerland. Can't wait to see you both!( 2008-03-23 11:56:13 )
Sarboo:Absolutely beautiful...I think my fave is the last pic of the Goldten Temple - so serene :o)
( 2008-03-23 10:31:03 )
Gino and Heather:Thank you so much for sharing these pics! We are actually shooting in India this year and in these exact places so im excited to see these shots.
Keep up the great work.
cheers,
Gino and Heather
www.storybyphoto.com
( 2008-03-22 11:25:59 )
Tammy Huculak:PS: by the way..looking at that brownie picture made me gain 10 lbs! How VERY mouth watering! : )( 2008-03-21 21:11:21 )
Tammy Huculak:Remarkable pictures and blogging! Cant wait to see you guys! We will have to have a Wii night as soon as you are back! We have guitar hero now! TONS of fun! See you both soon!
( 2008-03-21 21:09:18 )
manik:Ah this was the post I was waiting for. Just seeing those golden temple pics made my heart feel all warm. I really hope you guys enjoyed it there because I know I pumped it up so much before you left. And Im so sad that Im not gonna be at the wedding in jalandhar! give everyone my love and I hope you guys have a blast!
( 2008-03-21 21:08:24 )
Geeta Kaur:Lauren, I Loved your post! Photos are awesome! and your post is factual, thank you!! I am constantly sending comments with corrections to bloggers when they post wrong information about Sikhism. Your post is perfect! When you go back to Delhi, please make it a point to visit Sis Ganj Gurudwara in Old Delhi and Gurudwara Bangla Sahib in Cannaught Place, two of 10 historical Gurudwaras in Delhi. I guarantee you that you will have a serene, spiritual experience and that you will be welcomed with love and open hearts. I hope you will write about the factual history of the Sikh Gurudwaras, such as how Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji sacrificed His life to save Kashmiri Pandits and the Hindu religion from forced conversion and oppression by Aurangzeb. It is a historical fact. The place where He was heheaded (translation of head is Sis) is Sis Ganj Gurudwara. You can see the exact spot by going down a few steps inside. To reply to your request: the word that we jubilantly exclaim is not In da Bad but Zindabad. One word. It means Long Live. So Hindustan Zindabad means Long Live Hindustan!! It is all in a spirit of fun. The people of India and Pakistan are very friendly, and I truly believe that we love each other. Pakistanis extend so much cordiality and hospitality to Sikhs when we visit our Sikh Gurudwaras in Paksitan. I hope the two governments will get their act together and shake hands and hug each other :-) Have fun! Looking forward tom reading your blog on the Sikh wedding in Jullundhur!( 2008-03-21 12:36:16 )
Megha & Chakshu | Portrait Session II
Wednesday
Lodi Gardens, Delhi, India
March 19, 2008
Yes, there is more of these two gorgeous kids! I can just sense you all hopping up and down with excitement!
So for our famous Taj session Megha and Chakshu wore their outfits from their reception. And for an Indian wedding there are two very important sets of clothing. It was only fair that we do a session with both outfits! So Megha and Chakshu went through another grueling round of beautifying themselves and we all hopping into the car and drove into New Delhi. We went to the gorgeous Lodi Gardensto take some shots in their amazing clothes. Here’s what we got.
Megha is super easy to make laugh, which bodes well for us since we can easily get great fun shots like this.
Throwing in a little mystery ☺
The setting was just amazing, although we still weren’t without big hordes of on-lookers. In India it is not considered rude, as it is in Canada, to simply stand and stare. So it was tough to handle, but once again these two did a flat out fantastic job.
I seriously think Chakshu could have a future as a model. He just poses and smiles so easily.
And Megha does a bang-up job as well. One day we’ll have to take modeling lesssons from them!
And together they are just fab.
It was like our dream photo location. Great light, and great architecture, we could have spent all day there!
Now here is a neat one. Rob was trying out a technique he liked, and I thin
Eric D: Excellent photos especially the Boatman from Varansi. You certainly have an eye for photography. ( 2008-07-06 09:48:26 )
teresaling: Please post more. I would like to see pictures from your travels. :) ( 2008-06-30 10:06:42 )
Shweta: Yo,in bid to mae u popular, I am pasting your link onto my favs in my blog witnessofthemeltingpot.blogspot.com.I know u dnt need it, it's just my way of telling you hw much i like ur wrk!The lotus temple shot's great as usual.:) ( 2008-06-29 11:42:01 )